If someone disappears, it's usually for a reason and I'm not going to try to pry and poke and prod. I normally don't make much effort to get in contact with people anyway, and since I've been working to death a lot, I don't really have time to go poke my nose in someone else's affairs. That was my general 'OH NO?! WTF?!' Message where people may reply at their leisure and it will be my only one unless something else major happens.